In this age of information explosion, everyone is busy dealing with various trifles, and replying to messages can sometimes be overlooked by us inadvertently. But you know what? For the other half of the relationship, not responding to messages in a timely manner can trigger an unnecessary “crisis.” Don’t worry, today I will teach you a few tips to easily resolve the “little storm” caused by forgetting to return your girlfriend’s news.

1. Understand her “little emotions”

Forgot to text back your girlfriend? These sweet words, easily resolve the emotional crisis!

We need to understand that the reason why a girlfriend is unhappy because she does not reply to a message in time is not really because of the few unread messages, but because she feels ignored or unvalued. The first step is to understand her “little emotion” and recognize that it shows that she cares about you and needs you.

2. Apologize quickly and sincerely

If you notice that you forgot to respond to a message, and she has been upset about it, then don’t hesitate to apologize quickly and sincerely! Remember, attitude is everything. You can say something like, “Honey, I’m sorry. I was really busy just now. I didn’t respond to your message in time, and I’m really sorry that I made you feel unhappy.” This apology expresses how sorry you are, explains why, and shows her that you are sincere.

3. Give a reasonable explanation

It’s not enough to apologize; you also need to offer a reasonable explanation. Tell her why you didn’t respond to your messages in a timely manner, whether it was because you were too busy at work, your phone died, or some other reason. It’s important to let her know that you’re not ignoring her on purpose, but that there are specific reasons why you haven’t responded in a timely manner.

Prove your love with action

In addition to words of comfort and explanation, you need to prove your love with actions. For example, you can immediately make a video call to her and let her see your smile and sincere eyes; Or you can prepare a small gift for her to show your apologies and thoughts. These actions will let her feel that you care and love, so as to resolve the heart of discontent.

5. Make small rules for “replying to messages”

To prevent a similar situation from happening again, you can work with her to develop some small rules for “replying to messages.” For example, agree to reply to at least one emoji or “busy, reply later” message no matter how busy; Or set a specific time period, such as saying good night to each other every night before going to bed. Such a small rule can not only make the communication between you more smooth, but also let her feel your intentions and change.

Forgot to text back your girlfriend? These sweet words, easily resolve the emotional crisis!

6. Show your “desire to live”

In the process of resolving the crisis, it is appropriate to show your “desire for life”. For example, you can post some funny memes or make fun of yourself to ease the tension. You can also appropriately show your love, sell cute, let her see you cute and innocent. This “desire to live” can not only resolve the crisis, but also make your relationship sweeter.

7. Deepen communication and enhance understanding

Don’t forget to communicate with her in depth. Tell her how you feel and think, and listen to her needs and expectations as well. Through communication, you can understand each other better and find a communication style that works better for you. It will also show her that you are mature and willing to put effort into the relationship.

Example sharing: How did he successfully resolve the crisis

Let’s take a look at a real example! Xiao Ming is a workaholic who often forgets to reply to his girlfriend Xiaoli’s messages because he is busy with his work. Once, Xiao Li was angry because of this, Xiao Ming realized the seriousness of the problem. He quickly called Xiao Li, apologized profusely, and explained that he had been too busy at work to reply in time. Then he bought Xiao Li a bunch of her favorite flowers and asked for a day off to go to the movies and have dinner with her. Most importantly, they worked out small rules for “replying to messages” and agreed to keep in touch no matter how busy they were. Since then, Xiao Ming has never made Xiao Li angry by forgetting to reply to messages, and their feelings have become even sweeter.

Love and understanding dissolve all crises

Forgetting to reply to a girlfriend’s message is not a big deal, but if not handled in a timely manner, it may lead to unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts. Remember, love and understanding are the keys to resolving any crisis. As long as you are willing to understand her, care for her, love her, then any crisis can be easily resolved. The next time you forget to reply to her message, try the above method. I believe that you will be able to easily resolve the crisis, make your relationship more sweet and stable.

In love, we all need to learn how to love, how to understand, how to tolerate. Only in this way can we go through every difficulty together and walk hand in hand towards a happy future. Cherish each other and love with your heart! Even if you occasionally forget to reply to a message, it doesn’t matter, because you have the means and determination to resolve the “little storm”.